You are a miracle and unique among all humans who have ever, or will be on this planet. With that comes a kind of responsibility to be a positive influence. That can be in your immediate circle, or on a worldwide scale. It’s about knowing what your heart is drawn to, then stepping up to who you want to be.

As I was preparing to add this class to the website I found myself wishing so much that I could have been in the same room with you as you’ve gone through each of the classes in this workshop.

In lieu of being able to sit with you face-to-face, I would be honored if you would be willing to have a phone or Skype conversation with me.

If you’re willing, please write to me at and we can set up a time that works for you.

So, here we are at the 11th Class, and the Fifth Facet of Feminine Grace. I hope you’ve been able to incorporate the first Four Facets into your way of being. Practicing gratitude, loving yourself like never before, taking delight in the every day world around you (and being delightful), and this last week, shining your light.

You are in the beginning stages of living in the energy of Feminine Grace. Living in your unique interpretation of personalized Feminine Grace. How does it feel? I’d love for you to share that with me.

The Fifth Facet

Make a Difference

Shining your light is a little bit of what the Fifth Facet is all about. But in this case, it’s on a bigger scale. This facet is about shining your light in a bigger way.

You, like all of us, are on this planet for a finite period of time. And you, like all of life, are a miracle. I think I’m safe in saying that there has never been anyone quite like you…ever.

So why are you here?

I don’t think it is to just procreate and then die, as it appears it is for many life forms. Your ‘big brain’ makes you different. I feel it holds a certain responsibility, if only to honor whatever power caused you to be.

Make a Difference means do the best with your life, but do so by positively impacting the world around you.

That can mean in your immediate circle, on a world-wide scale or anything in between. It has to do with what your heart is drawn to do.

But most important is that you do whatever it is with Feminine Grace. When you do, you will be a positive force in the world simply because you will be radiating light and love. You will be in your feminine energy, even if you’re doing something huge, in a powerful way, which ordinarily, would cause you to unconsciously slip into your masculine energy.

Intention Is the Key

The power behind this Facet of Feminine Grace is your intention. You may not have thought of it yet, but Feminine Grace is about loving more purely.

Yes, it starts with loving yourself, which you now understand to be the foundation of your ability and willingness to open your heart to loving and being loved by others. The more you are able to fully and completely embrace all of who you are, the more pure your live will be.

One of my ‘hidden agendas’ is that as more and more women embrace and live in their Feminine Grace, the more love and compassion will flow, the less seldom buttons will get triggered, the more all relationships will improve. Love and kindness are a side effect of Feminine Grace.

When you add purposeful intention to the new habits you’ve been developing, the world around you will shift in a variety of positive ways.

If you’re already doing things to make the world a better place, on whatever scale, when you add the intention of using your Feminine Grace to Make a Difference, the impact will become greater.

The big question then, is what can you do to Make a Difference?

Is there something you’ve dreamed of doing but never have? Is there something you’re doing now that you would like to do in a bigger way, or expand it into a new arena?

If you want to improve the lives of everyone in your family, inspiring your children and your husband to embrace and begin to live the qualities of each facet, how can you do that?

If you want to make the charity you are already involved with help even more, how can you imbue the qualities of Feminine Grace into that organization?

When you purposefully choose to make a difference, you will.

Assignment #1

Discover How You Can Make a Difference

In this meditation you will explore how you want to use your Feminine Grace to Make a Difference. Listen to your heart and let your intuition, your Inner Wise Woman, guide you.

You will know in your body when you have determined what your heart wants. This is not about what you think you ‘ought’ to do, what your husband, mother or father want you to do, but what you want to do.

Be sure and have your journal with you so you can write notes about what you discover.

You might want to keep a notepad with you because other ways to Make a Difference are likely to rise to the surface throughout the next week or two. Write them down so you can explore their potential.

Assignment #2

Share Feminine Grace

One way you can easily make a difference is to share with your friends, both personal and virtual, your family members, and anyone you feel would benefit from learning what you have learned in this workshop.

I do this because my heart has led me to offer this workshop. If you feel you are benefiting from expanding your Feminine Grace, and your heart wants you to, share with whomever you feel will enjoy the same benefits as you have.